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Carver County Corruption- Lea Banken Contacts the ACLU February 13, 2012Lea Banken sent a letter to the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) asking them to help her keep her blog. The ACLU is an internationally recognized foundation that works to protect civil liberties. Lea Banken participates in publishing the blog carvercountycorruption.wordpress.com. This blog includes court papers and informs the public about Carver County […]
- Judge Flagrantly Violates Federal and Minnesota Constitutions February 9, 2012In two prior court orders, Carver County Judge Richard Perkins directed Lea Banken to take down her internet blog, carvercountycorruption.wordpress.com, make no postings to that blog or any other, and assessed sanctions of over $9,000 against her for contempt of court because she refused to do so. These assessments are judgments against Ms. Banken and [...]
- Jeremy Banken and Chris Banas Plead With Perkins to Force the CCC Blog Offline… February 8, 2012LINK TO COURT DOCS FILED BY BANAS: BANAS BLOG REMoval Christopher Banas and Jeremy Banken filed a motion with the courts asking for immediate removal of the CCC blog. Banas is asking for this motion to be heard this Thursday February 9th, 2012 – during the hearing where Lea Banken is asking again for immediate time with [...]
- Lea Banken Contacts the ACLU February 13, 2012
Coalition Against Legal Abuse in New York- Ohel Scams Politicians, Pushing for Mandated Reporter ProposalOhel’s David Mandel and Orthodox Jewish Pinny Taub appeared on CBS in November 2011, pushing a new proposal which would make every person in the State of New York a mandated reporter. This would require each and every adult too … Continue reading →
- De Blasio: Six Years After Nixzmary, Children Still Lost in Preventable DeathsNEW YORK — Six years after the tragic death of Nixzmary Brown, Public Advocate Bill de Blasio, a former Brooklyn councilman, has released a report reviewing dozens of recent child deaths. “Lessons from Tragedy” reviews 75 child fatality reports issued … Continue reading →
- Judge Jeffrey Sunshine Orders Mother to Stop Video-Chatting with Young SonOnly two weeks ago, we heard about the ten year old boy who threatened to kill the judge if he wasn’t reunited with his mother. The court’s response was “Judge Sidney Strauss pulled from Queens custody battle”. The case was … Continue reading →
- Ohel Scams Politicians, Pushing for Mandated Reporter Proposal
Divorce in Connecticut
Dara Carlin, M.A.- What's happening at the Leg' this week: Feb. 22 - 24Gotta love holiday weekends but how hard is it to pull back out of 'em and get "back on track"...The Hawaii Leg' (Legislature) appears to be in the same groove this week with anti-abuse...
- Another murder-suicide in "paradise"The story coming out of the sleepy North Shore community of Waimea was covered in all our media: KHON: http://www.khon2.com/news/local/story/Victim-in-apparent-murder-suicide-was-avid-North/HqX8BkMDOUmXxZB6SWH7kA.cspx Hawaii News...
- Forgiven but not forgottenThe moral high road says to “forgive and forget” but when it comes to domestic violence, whose prerogative is that exactly? Is that a right to be solely maintained by the victim him/herself? Is it...
- What's happening at the Leg' this week: Feb. 22 - 24
Anne Stevenson- A Citizen's Report From the U.S. Conference of MayorsLast week I found myself with a last-minute invitation to become a fly on the wall of the U.S. Conference of Mayors in Washington, D.C. Since the last conference in June 2011, an widespread movement called Occupy Wall Street has arisen to protest the fact that 99% of the country does not have meaningful access to their government. As a member of the 99%, and […]
- A Citizen's Report From the U.S. Conference of Mayors
Parenting News Network- Kansas Legislation; Marriage is the answer to childhood poverty, Require victims of domestic violence to be counseled on abstinence and suggest returning to their abuser to promote “two-parent families”. oh and…Files Egg-As-Person Legislation
- Live Stream: The Ninth Annual ‘Battered Mothers Custody Conference’ Begins Tonight Jan 6, 7 & 8th, Albany, NY
- U. S. Department of Justice v. Custody Court System(Battered Mothers, Abused Children are Being Further Battered and Abused by the US Courts failure to let Domestic Violence Mothers Leave With Their Children. Many Ask, “Why Doesn’t She Just Leave?” When it comes to Domestic Violence, besides all the other very unsafe reasons those with children will loose their children to the very animal [more...]
No Way Out But One: Updates- From Boston Magazine: ‘No Way Out But One’ to Unveil at MIT October 26, 2011BY SARA EDWARDSA compelling new documentary debuts in Boston this week that will open your eyes to a stunning injustice. No Way Out But One was co-written and directed by Emmy award winning television producer Garland Waller, currently a professor at Boston University. Waller, a friend and former colleague of mine at WBZ-TV, asked me to go to San Diego in Au […]
- First Festival Screening of No Way Out But One to be at MIT October 2, 2011The Courts Called Her Crazy. The FBI Called Her a Kidnapper. Her Kids Called Her a Hero. Screening of Award-Winning Documentary Boston, MA – Production has just been completed on No Way Out But One, an independent documentary by Garland Waller and Barry Nola […]
- A Final Shoot - a Remarkable Ending August 23, 2011Last night - taking a break from the nearly non-stop editing - Garland Waller supervised the final shoot for No Way Out But One. And she had the chance to share a truly remarkable moment with Holly Collins, the subject of her film.Just over 17 years after Holly Collins grabbed her children and fled the country to save them from a life of abuse - Holly came […]
- Through the Looking Glass Darkly July 11, 2011Like a trip through Lewis Caroll’s Looking Glass, the Family Court System of Hennepin County Minnesota is a very strange world all unto itself. That is one of the things we discovered again and again on our final round of interviews for NO WAY OUT BUT ONE conducted in Minnesota last week. ">" />Garland Interviews a Witness in Minnesota Garl […]
- The Beginning of the End Starts Tomorrow - and Thanks a Million July 5, 2011Today - shortly after noon - NO WAY OUT BUT ONE was officially declared FUNDED! by Kickstarter. Garland and I can't begin to thank all the 100-plus contributors enough for their generous support. And tomorrow - Garland and I are on a flight to St. Paul, MN - to do some of the last interviews - including a number of people who were involved in the case […]
- From Boston Magazine: ‘No Way Out But One’ to Unveil at MIT October 26, 2011
STOP SAP- Dos años de inhabilitación al juez Serrano por cambiar el régimen de custodia de un niñohttp://www.rtve.es/noticias/20111013/tsja-condena-juez-serrano-dos-anos-inhabilitacion-prevaricar/468093.shtml La Sala de lo Civil y Penal del Tribunal Superior de Justicia de Andalucía (TSJA) ha condenado al juez de Familia de Sevilla Fr...
- La CEDAW (ONU) advirtió al gobierno italiano del peligro del SAP y las leyes de Custodia Compartida gracias al Informe Sombra de la Plataforma italiana de mujeres Lavori in CorsaAsociaciones de mujeres italianas reunidas en la Plataforma "Lavori in Corsa" presentaron en la sesión plenaria de Naciones Unidas en julio de 2011 un Informe Sombra contra el gobierno italiano: http://files.giuristidemocratici.it/giuristi/Zf...
- LA TEORÍA DEL SAP: RECHAZADA SU INCLUSIÓN EN EL DSM-V (Manual diagnóstico y estadístico de los trastornos mentales)“Parental Alienation Syndrome:" Another Alarming DSM-5 ProposalUsing a medicalizing label to mask child sexual abuse Published on June 6, 2011 by Paula J. Caplan, Ph.D. in Science Isn’t Golden On June 9, 2011, I was one of three...
- Dos años de inhabilitación al juez Serrano por cambiar el régimen de custodia de un niño
Discurso del pretendido Síndrome de Alienación Parental en Español- Dos años de inhabilitación al juez Serrano por cambiar el régimen de custodia de un niñohttp://www.rtve.es/noticias/20111013/tsja-condena-juez-serrano-dos-anos-inhabilitacion-prevaricar/468093.shtml La Sala de lo Civil y Penal del Tribunal Superior de Justicia de Andalucía (TSJA) ha condenado al juez de Familia de Sevilla Fr...
- La CEDAW (ONU) advirtió al gobierno italiano del peligro del SAP y las leyes de Custodia Compartida gracias al Informe Sombra de la Plataforma italiana de mujeres Lavori in CorsaAsociaciones de mujeres italianas reunidas en la Plataforma "Lavori in Corsa" presentaron en la sesión plenaria de Naciones Unidas en julio de 2011 un Informe Sombra contra el gobierno italiano: http://files.giuristidemocratici.it/giuristi/Zf...
- LA TEORÍA DEL SAP: RECHAZADA SU INCLUSIÓN EN EL DSM-V (Manual diagnóstico y estadístico de los trastornos mentales)“Parental Alienation Syndrome:" Another Alarming DSM-5 ProposalUsing a medicalizing label to mask child sexual abuse Published on June 6, 2011 by Paula J. Caplan, Ph.D. in Science Isn’t Golden On June 9, 2011, I was one of three...
- Dos años de inhabilitación al juez Serrano por cambiar el régimen de custodia de un niño
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WERE TAX DOLLARS USED TO “FLIP” CUSTODY IN YOUR CHILD’S CASE?
From:
The National Alliance for Family Court Justice
The truth about most "troubled" custody cases is that many decisions are made long before the trials ever get started - and sometimes by individuals other than the judge who eventually "hears" the case.
In these kinds of cases, there is little you could have said or done to change this - as many have sensed…
We now know techniques to discover and retroactively attack this illegal collusion which is the real cause of the unfavorable and "biased" court decisions against mothers who try to protect themselves and their children from abusive fathers.
The only way to help your children and yourself is to focus on those involved in your case, with whom they associate and what they have done... and to learn a different style in dealing with these individuals.
DO NOT introduce your story with, "This is what happened to my child and me...". Explaining a series of traumatic events doesn't identify the category of these kinds of cases which involve official collusion.
A long recitation of incidents that are related - but not necessarily in order - is usually how traumatised mothers explain all of the threats, abuse and damage done when trying desperately to protect their children and themselves. This can be very confusing to those who are not involved in the case and often sounds unbelievable to those who are still unaware of the family court crisis.
Remove yourself from your emotions as much as possible and present the facts of the case as if you were someone else explaining a chronological outline of what you have reviewed from a case file.
There are hidden reasons why fathers retaliate with custody litigation when mothers file child abuse or support arrears complaints. There are also hidden reasons why CPS will not investigate child abuse reports - using excuses involving terms such as: "it's a custody battle", "a case with ongoing litigation", "a case of he said / she said" or "a case of parental alienation".
In these types of cases, the "system" deliberately mishandles cases: fathers are coached in retaliatory litigation and "crazy" making so those who are paid for their services can maintain control of lucrative litigation.
In these kinds of cases, those involved in the charade view you as exploitable prey. Posturing yourself as a "helpless" victim only provokes their malicious instincts and makes them feel very successful...and eager to conduct more malicious litigation against you.
This is the reason there are few court professionals who can actually handle these type of cases honestly and effectively. We know of no pro-bono experts who work on these cases. Very few are successful with these cases and those who are successful charge more than most can afford.
Also, some custody/child abuse litigation "experts" who specialize in fighting PAS for protective mothers have a history of acting like swindlers and not professional attorneys. They demand huge retainer fees only to totally ignore their new client after the retainer fee check has cleared their bank. Some of these attorney have had bar complaints filed against them by victimized mothers.
We know of no established women's or child abuse advocacy organization which effectively assists victims in these cases. As many have discovered, the main result from seeking a pro-bono expert is a lot of time lost and an expensive phone bill.
After many years of research, we have found an alternative way to handle these kinds of cases which has proven to be quite effective: Learn to understand the hidden traps in the system. Learn how to document the professional misconduct. Learn to defend yourself from those who are exploiting you and your children for profit.
To network with others who are researching the ways in which federal and state funds are used to "flip" custody from protective mothers to abusive fathers, contact:
Liz Richards, Director
The National Alliance for Family Court Justiceemail: LIZGOAL@aol.com
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